"ALL THINGS IN TIME MUST PASS"

Christian selfhelp and advice.

Welcome to the homepage of ... 

 www.theheralderuk.co.uk

 The Christian selfhelp and advice site:

If you are of a mind to  seek selfhelp and advice .... then don't walk alone walk with ... ME!

This is a christian selfhelp and advice site for those who seek nothing but truth:

Dear Friend, you are now at a christian personal selfhelp and advice site where you can relax and discover the real secret of your own innerself, your own innerworld and even more astounding, the amazing and fabulous wonder what makes you alone ... YOU!

WHO AM I?

If in your innermost being you feel uneasy and troubled with the world all around you, and if in your heart and soul you sincerely look for selfhelp and advice from one whom you feel you can trust, then seek no more for I am Pat Kiely also known as  ... theheralderuk ... and my aim is to personally, in your search for true peace of body and mind, help you discover the everlasting secret of what you, in your own innerself, in your very own absolute body+soul+spirit, really are! Stay with me and I promise that I ... theheralderuk will soon clearly and easily define the inner reality and reveal the hidden potential of the true and amazing wonder that's ... YOU! With me as your friend and under my care and guidance, you will soon discover the full reality about the world and what it all means in respect to you and your very own eternal outlook.

WHAT AM I?

First and foremost I hope that I am going to be your christian friend and your  selfhelp guide. Why? Because I am deeply concerned with the state of humanity I see all around me in the world today. So many dear souls without any knowledge, or any selfhelp, of their own innerself ... no Christian Friends ... and not a soul out there anywhere to help them! My aim, as I have already mentioned, is to point out the final destiny which awaits us all if we only remain in what we think we are in our SELF! The main truth being that eternally we are not of this World! No, and we are definitely not what in our worldly illusions we only imagine our own self to be.

WHY AM I?

I am in the world to give you all the selfhelp you need, and my mission is to reveal to you the wonderful secret of your very own ... THREE INNER WORLDS ... I will strive hard alongside you to explain the only eternal solution we have in our power for overcoming all those endless trials and pains which we encounter during our Time on the Earth. So my friend are you ready, with a little selfhelp from me, to discover the truth about whom you really are in your own Innerself and Being? You are? Then come with me, I am your very own selfhelp partner and I will always be near you! Let us go out together now and seek for peace and solace away from this crazy and over tumultuous ... 'WORLD of the SENSES.'

MY WORKS:

My first book entitled 'BLANKS EXPOSED' has recently been published and it is available from the Booksurge Publishing Company. Here is a short extract of my work.

From its lowest and simplest sense to its highest and most striking significance, the word — BLANK — doesn’t mean anything other than dull, empty, null and void, it’s just another expression of Death! This being so, then surely it has to be the only word in the English Language that gives an accurate and true description to all the poor souls who spend the whole, or the greater part, of their lives outside of the wonderful knowledge of the pure Love of God. Why do I say this? I say it because in my heart I honestly believe that the Living God is the ALL in the ALL.

God alone is the eternal Father of Birth and Creation; God alone is the eternal Spirit of Motion and Life; God alone is the eternal Son of Love and Light; outside of God there is — NOTHING! Nothing whatever, except perhaps, only oceans and oceans of endless chaos and night.

With this Truth firmly rooted within me, I also believe that there’s not a soul in the world who has the right to proclaim that it is truly 'alive' until it has first and foremost given its whole SELF over completely to - God - for not until then, after this great Self-sacrifice has been humbly and truthfully confirmed, will the Living God in secret, and in the blessedness of silence and prayer, spring into BEING in the soul of the child whom He loves. The Father becomes the Birth in the soul; the Spirit becomes the Life in the soul; the Son becomes the Light in the soul; and the soul, glowing with love and truly ‘Alive’ for the first time in TIME, begins living and breathing and shining in Him.

All creatures and things other than God are illusion, they are nothing more nor less than shadowy dreams what soon dissolve and become no more. So too are the souls who misguidedly believe they’re alive without God. Without the SPIRIT of GOD alive and active and working through them they are illusions, vaporised phantoms that float aimlessly about in the coldness and fog of their own Selfish souls soon sadly to dissolve and become no more, except perhaps as I said earlier: ‘A something of nothing in an endless ocean of chaos and night.’

Why is this so? It’s so because anyone who is not with God is against Him! With thoughts so sad and so true as this in my mind, tremors pulse through me as I ponder the outcome they all will inherit when they finally depart from the world.

I’m not telling lies, neither am I trying to pull the wool over anyone’s eyes when I write about a Truth as profound as this. No, all I’m simply doing is relating a proven fact from my own miserable and fallen past. Because I also, and for far longer than I care to remember, was very much alone in this world outside of God’s love. I was dull, empty, null and void, I was, and I shamefully admit it, a —- BLANK.

This alone is the sole reason why I am writing this book, in the sincere hope that —- YOU, (whoever you may be reading it), will understand loudly and clearly how important for you, and for your own well-being, is the TRUTH I am trying to tell you.

If, by the Grace of the Lord, I can enter even a little into the ‘ESSENCE’ of your very own soul, then my labour, together with your understanding, will not have been wasted in vain.

Booksurge has issued a Press Release with the launch of the book ... it reads like this

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Revitalized Christian Shares the Journey of His Soul From

Blank to Blessed

Pat Kiely’s new book, Blanks Exposed is a wakeup call for those unsatisfied with life, currently filling the void with anything but God’s Supreme Love

NEWPORT, SOUTH WALES, UK. – February 27, 2006 – While there is certainly no shortage of Christian self-help manuals, Pat Kiely’s book, Blanks Exposed  is a one-of-a-kind, offering a strong call to action based on Kiely’s personal journey along the path to finding God and the experiences and transformations of other unbelievers.

Kiely refers to these unbelievers throughout the book as “blanks” – those whose lives are empty because they continue to stubbornly remain ignorant of the Word and the divine love of the Lord; these blanks seek to fill their lives with other vices, such as politics, education, relationships with other humans and more. Acknowledging that he himself was a blank for much of his life, Kiely speaks honestly and openly about his struggles to turn his life completely and fully over to God, but most importantly to the joy and comfort received once he made a true conversion.

Written in decisive, forceful prose reminiscent of the powerful prophets of early America, Kiely’s relentless, inspiring celebration of God’s love is not about hand-holding or universal acceptance. Kiely’s voice is strong, his insights unique, and his conviction incomparable. He is dedicated to sharing his own lessons with the world; his selflessness is expressed in a language more visceral and potent than a Cotton Mather sermon.

Blanks Exposed is certainly poised to revolutionize this genre, as well as to make a major social impact among the religious and revivalist communities.

For more information, please contact the author at theheralderuk@yahoo.co.uk. Blanks Exposed is available for sale online at Amazon.com, Borders.com, BookSurge.com, and through additional wholesale and retail channels worldwide.

About the Author A self-educated native of Newport, South Wales, UK. Pat Kiely is a full-time father who enjoys writing and reading religious and philosophical tomes.

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It has also been reviewed by a best selling New York Times author. Here are her comments on the book.

Blanks Exposed  By Pat Kiely

As reviewed by New York Times best selling author Ellen Tanner Marsh

If religion is the grace and good of the world, then what is the opposite of religion? And what, by turn, is the opposite of a true believer? In Blanks Exposed, author Pat Kiely provides a thought-provoking and inspirational counterpoint to those who believe.

Unbelievers, Kiely states, are "blanks." A blank is a person whose life is empty because he or she continues to stubbornly stand outside the knowledge of God’s love. A blank, Kiely says, can be found in politics, film, education, or anywhere else in everyday life. But the good thing about blanks, Kiely maintains, is that the void they inhabit, their nothingness, can  be filled—and what better thing to fill it with than God’s supreme love?

Beautifully written and honestly told, Kiely recounts his own personal journey along the path toward finding God. With his credentials firmly and powerfully established, he next describes the four types of blanks: the proud, the envious, the angry and the greedy, and shows how they can be found in every walk of life. Taking us along on an interesting tour, he confronts and talks with a number of blanks, showing us their flawed inner workings by letting their actions speak for themselves.

Kiely’s ambitious attempt to show people what he believes is the only way for a better life and a richer future is heartfelt, inspirational and profound. Blanks Exposed is essential reading material for those seeking a virtual roadmap toward light and truth with the final destination being nothing less than a call for love, compassion and greater service to the world.

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BLANKS EXPOSED offers life and joy to all those dear souls lost in their ....... SELF.

The book is readily available from Amazon.... To read more please click ....... here.

Other titles to follow are: --- THE DISMAZE EXPOSED  and  SELF-EXPOSED.

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If you have any questions or problems please don't hesitate to  'email me'  and I will do all in my power to help you.
                

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Selfhelp And Support Groups:

Support-Group.com -- http://www.support-group.com/
   Allows people with health, personal, and relationship issues.

Survivors Of Spiritual Abuse -- http://www.sosa.org/
   Poems, art, prose, self help, lists related links, web rings.

Christian Recovery International -- http://www.christianrecovery.com/
   The NACR is dedicated to helping Christians recover from abuse, addiction and trauma.

Guild of Catholic Doctors -- http://www.catholicdoctors.org.uk
   Offering support and advice on medical moral and ethical problems from a Catholic perspective.

Father Leo Online -- http://www.fatherleo.com
   Chatroom, message boards, and articles.

Terminal Wing-Ding Club, The -- http://alt.venus.co.uk/weed/twc/
   Supports aged and terminally ill members who wish to follow the example of Aldous Huxley, Timothy Leary and others.

If You Had Controlling Parents -- http://www.controllingparents.com/
   Dedicated to education about and prevention of unhealthy parental control.

SOS Self-Help Programs -- http://www.sosprograms.com/
   Helps individuals to manage anxiety, anger, depression, and emotions by using cognitive therapy.

Christians in Recovery -- http://www.christians-in-recovery.com/
   Comprehensive resource for people recovering from abuse, family dysfunction, relationships, and pornography.

Dr. Koop's Interactive Community -- http://drkoop.com/community/
   Share with others through scheduled chats, message boards, and on-line live events.

Learning Disabled Kids Support (India) -- http://www.learningdisabilities.ourfamily.com
   Library of information, chat and message boards for kids, and where help can be found in India.

Recovery With Father Leo Booth -- http://www.fatherleo.com/index.shtml
   Help for your self-esteem and enlightenment to pave the recovery road to empowerment, includes forums.

Lifeline IWM -- http://cwpp.slq.qld.gov.au/lifelineiwm/
   A non-profit provider of support and counselling services to the community.

Orphaned Children Now Adults -- http://www.geocities.com/yaegerj/orphanedsupportgroup.html
   A place to share feelings of loneliness without knowing ones own biological family.

HESHE Anonymous -- http://www.berks.com/12step/
   Recovery from all forms of addiction and addictive behaviors, dependency and co-dependency.

Fostered Abandoned Children Together -- http://www.factsupportgroup.com
   Information and materials for former foster children to form and conduct their own meetings.

All Things British -- http://www.thebritishclub.com
   Various services for British expatriates.

Self-Help Sourcebook -- http://mentalhelp.net/selfhelp/
   A searchable index of mental health and medical support groups.

Emotional Support on the Internet -- http://www.netservs.com/care/
   Listing of online support groups.

Transitions -- http://www.onestepatatime.com
   Support, discussion, resources and help groups for behavior disorders including self esteem, obsessive compulsive, and anxiety panic attacks.

Dual Diagnosis -- http://www.angelfire.com/journal/bipolaralcoholic
   Email support group for persons diagnosed with alcoholism / addictions and bipolar / deppression / anxiety.

Open Hearts Ministry -- http://www.openheartsministry.org/
   Support group for abused people which uses Christian approach to healing. Includes seminars, resources, local chapters and newsletter.

Ageless Love -- http://www.agelesslove.com
   Online community providing age-gap relationship support.

Officium -- http://www.officium.org.uk
   Support and advice for people affected by violent crime both on the site and in a handbook.

Forgiveness Web -- http://www.forgivenessweb.com
   Forgiveness in addiction and recovery; has message board, links to related articles and sites.

Recovery Web -- http://www.recovery-man.com/
   Recovery from addictions and alcoholism, sexual abuse, post traumatic stress disorder, codependency and abusive relationships.

Shattered Men -- http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shattterdmen/
   For physically and emotionally abused men; explore this together from a Biblical point of view.

Survivors of the System: Foster Children United -- http://www.sos-fosternet.org/
   Support for current and former foster children.

Spirit Mend Emotional Abuse Support -- http://spiritmend.com
   Spirit Mend is an emotional and verbal abuse support site. The site includes resources, information, message board and chat.

Domestic Violence Support and Information -- http://www.geocities.com/safeumbrella
   Christian-based support group for women and children who are victims or survivors of domestic violence.

Silent Tears, Inc. -- http://silenttears.itgo.com
   Support group for the victims of partner domestic violence offering programs, chats and support.

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Websites and Contacts
Abuse/Incest Support 
Your guide to hundreds of sites
Contact:  Nancy Burnett
E-mail  Website

Accuracy About Abuse
Collection of scientific and professional articles relating to child abuse
Contact:  Marjorie Orr
Mailing address:  PO Box 3125, London NW3 5QG
Phone:  44 171 431 5339
Website

ACHES-MC (Advocacy Committee for Human Experiment Survivors - Mind Control)
Contacts:  Lynne Moss-Sharman, Canada and Patty Rehn, USA
Website

Amigos de los Sobrevivientes (Torture Survivors Network)
This network focuses on Latin America and the Caribbean.
Support, information, referrals, support with starting programs.
Phone:  (541) 484-2450
E-mail
Website

Amnesty International's Report on the Abuses of Stun Technology
Includes use and effects of stun guns and batons, taser guns, and stun belts.
May be triggering for some survivors.
Website

Dr. Nick Begich's Website
Website

BIO 2000 Panel on Human Experimentation
Broadcast panel discussion between professional experts - copy can be obtained
Contact:  Roy Bercaw
Mailing address:  PO Box 400297, Cambridge MA  02140
E-mail - Roy Bercaw  

CIA:  Bastion of Integrity
by The Winds
Information on US/Nazi Operation Paperclip and more
Website

Citizens Against Human Rights Abuse (CAHRA)
Contact:  Cheryl Welsh
Mailing address:  915 Zaragoza St., Davis CA  95616
E-mail

Clergy Abuse Survivors Alliance (CASA)
Mailing address:  5490 Judith St. #3, San Jose  CA  95123

Commercial Sexual Exploitation of Children in the U.S., Canada and Mexico
Groundbreaking results of study conducted by the University of Pennsylvania's Social Work department
Website

Covert Testing of Electronic Weapons on Innocent Civilians
Contact:  Eleanor White
Website

Cruel and Unusual Punishment
by William F. Shulz 
As appeared in the New York Review of Books.  In-depth analysis of the unethical use of electroshock devices and their effects on victims.
Website

Cyberangels
If you are being harassed via the Internet, you may want to contact
this service for help and advice.
Website

D-Support (for mental health professionals)
Contact:  Linda Chapman, MSW, LCSW
Mailing address:  7916 NW 23rd St., Suite 20, Bethany OK  73008

D&D Security Products' Stun Guns Webpage
Explains how stun guns are used, and some of their effects on victims.  Many torture victims have been controlled, and their memories electrically fragmented, by perpetrators who use stun devices - particularly stun guns.    
Website

Dissociation and the Fragmentary Nature of Traumatic Memories:  Overview and Exploratory Study
by Bessel A. van der Kolk and Rita Fisler.   
Overview of research and traumatic memory.
Website

Dissociation, Trauma, & Recovered Memories:
Collection of Useful Links & Other References
Website

Carla and Dave Emery's Website
About hypnotism and related technologies - shatters common myths, explains how hypnotism can easily be used to influence and control
Website

European Parliament's Scientific and Technological Options Assessment (STOA) 
Two reports address non-lethal devices and techniques developed to control prisoners and crowds.  
Website

 

False Memory Label Invented by Lobby Group
by Michelle Landsberg
Website

False Memory Syndrome:  Scientific Analysis
by Linda Chapman, MSW
Website

Federation of American Scientists (FAS)
A privately-funded non-profit policy organization
E-mail
Website

Gabriela's Healing Place for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse, Ritual Abuse and Trauma
Website

Gardner's Controversial Stance on Incest
by Mackenzie Carpenter and Ginny Kopas,
Pittsburgh Post-Gazette.
Website

General Resources on Experiments on Humans:
Web Pages and Databases on Bioethics and Human Experimentation
Website

Gentle Touch's Web
"If you are an Incest Survivor, or have survived any form of child sexual abuse, domestic violence, rape, or a hate crime we welcome you.  You do not deserve what has happened to you!"
Website

Government Mind Control
Information about newer, high-tech devices used by perpetrators
Website

Healing Roads Ritual Abuse Frequently Asked Questions
Website

Healthy Sex
Contact:  Wendy Maltz,
author of Healing Your Sexual Self
Website

A History of Secret Human Experimentation
excerpt from
MKULTRA: The CIA's Top Secret Program in Human Experimentation and Behavior Modification
by Dr. George Andrews
Website

A History of the Study of MPD/DID
Website

Holocaust FAQs
Website

Holocaust Home Page
Website

Holocaust Traumatic Memory Studies
Website

Hot Shot:  Power Mite Prod
This small device, and others like it, are used to easily "mark" the bodies of certain victims so that they are identifiable to other perpetrators who can identify the markings by their shape, size, and the distance between the prod marks.  Some victims have these pairs of markings on their faces and necks.
Website

Identification of Child Abuse Perpetrators (I-CAP)
Adult survivors of group sadistic and individual abuse are being asked to view a photo lineup to [possibly] identify a child's alleged abuser.  If a survivor recognizes a perpetrator, a letter describing the identification is used in court to help protect a child who is now being victimized.
Confidentiality applies.
Contact:  Roz Beasley
Mailing address:
Box 314, 132 N. El Camino Real,
Encinitas CA 92024
Phone:  (619) 632-7082

Implementation of the Nazi War Crimes Disclosure Act - An Interim report to Congress (P.L. 105-246)
Website

International Society for the Study of Dissociation (ISSD)
Website

Justice for Children
E-mail
Website

LeKZ' World of Multiple Personalities
Contact: Leilah el Khalil Zendavesta, MAR 
Website
E-mail

LINKUP
Focuses on clergy abuse
Email
Website

M.A.L.E.
For male abuse survivors.
Mailing address:
PO Box 380181, Denver CO 80238-1181.
Phone: (800) 949-6253.
E-mail

Messing With Our Minds
By Husayn Al-Kurdi.
Offers information about some very visible FMSF spokespeople.
Website

Mind Control Part 4:
High-Tech Crimes and Electromagnetic Madness
By Arlene Tyner
Website

Minnesota Awareness of Ritual Abuse Network (MnARA)
Website

Mothers Against Sexual Abuse (MASA)
Contact: Claire Reeves
Mailing Address:
503-1/2 S. Myrtle Ave., Suite 9,
Monrovia CA  91016

Moving Forward Online
"A Newsjournal For Adult Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse And Those Who Care For Them"
Website

Mr. Light & Associates/Utah Ritual Abuse Committee
Ritual Abuse Education and Victim Services
Contact: Jeanne Adams
Mailing address:
Mr. Light,
PO Box 12927,
Ogden UT 84412-2927
Phone: Utah (801) 737-0178
California (559) 688-3980 #2
Website

National Bioethics Advisory Commission's
reports & information
Website

National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC)
Mailing address:
Charles B. Wang
International Children's Building,
699 Prince St.,
Alexandria VA 22314-3175 
Phone: (703) 274-3900
24-hour hotline: (800) 843-5678
Website

National Center for PTSD (NCPTSD)
Mailing address:
116D, VAMROC,
215 N. Main St.,
White River Junction VT 05009-0001
Phone: (802) 296-5132
Website
E-mail

National Organization on Male Sexual Victimization
Website

Nazi declassified war crimes information
Complete summary on a list of Nazi war criminals
Website

Nuremberg Code
Reprinted by the Online Ethics Center for Engineering and Science
Website

The Olson File
Extensive article printed in Night and Day magazine, the Sunday Supplement to the London Mail on 8/23/98. Addresses the Nazi connection, the questionable death of Dr. Frank Olson, and names some of the CIA personnel who supervised or worked with the infamous MKULTRA programs.
Website

OMCT (World Organization Against Torture)
Website

Online Ethics Center for Engineering and Science
Website

Ottawa Recovered Memory Page
Contact:  Wendy Hovdestadt
Website

Our Nazi Allies
by Ken Silverstein
"A German amateur investigator finds information on the US Government's friendly dealings with war criminals."
Website

PARC-VRAMC
Contact:  Kathleen Sullivan
Mailing address:  PMB 129, 5251 Hwy 153, Hixson TN  37343
Website
E-mail

Kenneth Pope, Ph.D. - Abuse, Memory Science, Therapy, Ethics and Malpractice
Includes published articles on memory recovery and working with torture victims.
Website

Project Paperclip: Nazi Scientists Who Performed Human Experimentation in the U.S.
by Stephen Hale
Website

Pro-Survivor List (PSL)
News list for those interested in receiving information about resources and research to help those recovering from ritual abuse and mind control
Website

Psychiatric Advance Directive
By Judge David L., Bazelon
Center for Mental Health Law
"If you are concerned that you may be subject to involuntary psychiatric commitment or treatment at some future time, you can prepare a legal document in advance to express your choices about treatment.  The document is called an advance directive for mental health decisionmaking."
Templates and practical information.
Website

S. Progress's Recovery and Abuse Prevention Site
Website

Reality Bites:  CIA's Worst Kept Secret
by Martin A. Lee
"Newly declassified files confirm United States collaboration with Nazis"
Website

The Recovered Memory Project
directed by Professor Ross E. Cheit
of the Taubman Center for Public Policy and American Institutions at Brown University.
Website

Regulatory Issues:
Ethical Violations in Yale Schizophrenic Study
Temple University School of Medicine's Office of Clinical Trials
Website

Report from the Los Angeles County Commission for Women's
ormer Task Force on Ritual Abuse
Mailing address:
383 Hall of Administration,
500 W. Temple St., Los Angeles CA  90012
Phone: (213) 974-1455

Research Involving Persons with Mental Disorders That May Affect Decisionmaking Capacity, Vol. I, December 1998, Report and Recommendations of the National Bioethics Advisory Commission.
Website

Resources on Nonconsensual Human Experimentation by Stephen Hale
Website

Ritual Abuse, Ritual Crime and Healing
"Information and Resources for Survivors, Therapist and Others"
Website

Carol Rutz's Website
Information and excerpts from
A Nation Betrayed,
her heavily documented book about government sponsored
mind control experimentation on children & adults in the US.
Includes newer, declassified information on MKULTRA from the CIA.
Website
E-mailSupport-Group.com -- http://www.support-group.com/
   Allows people with health, personal, and relationship issues.

Survivors Of Spiritual Abuse -- http://www.sosa.org/
   Poems, art, prose, self help, lists related links, web rings.

Christian Recovery International -- http://www.christianrecovery.com/
   The NACR is dedicated to helping Christians recover from abuse, addiction and trauma.

Guild of Catholic Doctors -- http://www.catholicdoctors.org.uk
   Offering support and advice on medical moral and ethical problems from a Catholic perspective.

Father Leo Online -- http://www.fatherleo.com
   Chatroom, message boards, and articles.

Terminal Wing-Ding Club, The -- http://alt.venus.co.uk/weed/twc/
   Supports aged and terminally ill members who wish to follow the example of Aldous Huxley, Timothy Leary and others.

If You Had Controlling Parents -- http://www.controllingparents.com/
   Dedicated to education about and prevention of unhealthy parental control.

SOS Self-Help Programs -- http://www.sosprograms.com/
   Helps individuals to manage anxiety, anger, depression, and emotions by using cognitive therapy.

Christians in Recovery -- http://www.christians-in-recovery.com/
   Comprehensive resource for people recovering from abuse, family dysfunction, relationships, and pornography.

Dr. Koop's Interactive Community -- http://drkoop.com/community/
   Share with others through scheduled chats, message boards, and on-line live events.

Learning Disabled Kids Support (India) -- http://www.learningdisabilities.ourfamily.com
   Library of information, chat and message boards for kids, and where help can be found in India.

Recovery With Father Leo Booth -- http://www.fatherleo.com/index.shtml
   Help for your self-esteem and enlightenment to pave the recovery road to empowerment, includes forums.

Lifeline IWM -- http://cwpp.slq.qld.gov.au/lifelineiwm/
   A non-profit provider of support and counselling services to the community.

Orphaned Children Now Adults -- http://www.geocities.com/yaegerj/orphanedsupportgroup.html
   A place to share feelings of loneliness without knowing ones own biological family.

Spirit Mend Emotional Abuse Support -- http://spiritmend.com
   Spirit Mend is an emotional and verbal abuse support site. The site includes resources, information, message board and chat.

Domestic Violence Support and Information -- http://www.geocities.com/safeumbrella
   Christian-based support group for women and children who are victims or survivors of domestic violence.

Silent Tears, Inc. -- http://silenttears.itgo.com
   Support group for the victims of partner domestic violence offering programs, chats and support.

 

 

Safer Society Foundation, Inc.
Non-profit national research, advocacy, and referral center on the prevention and treatment of sexual abuse.  Extensive catalog of books and videos available.
Mailing address:
PO Box 340,
Brandon VT
05733-0340
Phone: (802) 247-3132
Website

Satanism and Ritual Abuse Archive
by Karen Curio Jones
Archive of "legal proceedings held in Juvenile, Family, Civil and Criminal Courts around the world where there have been allegations of Satanism or the use of Ritual to abuse others."
May be triggering for survivors.
Website

Security Planet Corp's Stun Gun Info
Detailed information about stun devices that are unfortunately used by some perpetrators to control and torture victims, and fragment or block out their memories of abuse
Website

Social Influence - Obedience to Authority:
Stanley Milgram conducted a psychological experiment in which a group of adults, one by one, were told by authority figures in white medical jackets to electrically torture an individual they could not see.
The results rocked the psychiatric community - most of the subjects obeyed to the extreme.
Website

South County Christian Counseling Center
St. Louis, MO
Specialize in the treatment of DID and related trauma issues.
Survivors' support group, newsletter, research, speaking, and teaching about trauma and mind control issues
Contact:
Mary Jo Schneller, MA, LCPC
E-mail - Mary Jo Schneller

Stanley Milgram's Experiment:
Obedience and Individual Responsibility
More information about the psychological experiment
Website

Stargate Documents:
Sun streak, Grill flame, Stargate,
the Military CRV Manual and more
"The CIA has made a number of Remote viewing documents and papers available to the public under the FOIA (Freedom of Information Act)."
May be triggering for some INE survivors.
Website

STOP IT NOW!
Helps potential abusers seek help; challenges abusers to seek help through a confidential helpline; works with families, peers and friends on how to confront abusers; helps build a social climate that does not tolerate child abuse
Mailing address:
PO Box 495, Haydenville MA 01039
Phone: (413) 268-3096
Website

Stop Mind control And Ritual abuse Today (SMART)
Contact: Neil Brick
Mailing address:
PO Box 1295,
Easthampton MA 01027-1295A
Website
E-mail - Neil Brick

Survivor Connection
"Activist center for survivors of sexual assault, rapes, incest, and child molestation"
Contacts: Frank and Sara Fitzpatrick
Mailing address:
52 Lyndon Rd.,
Cranston RI 02905-1121
Website
E-mail - the Fitzpatricks

Survivors' Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP)
Mailing address:
PO Box 438679,
Chicago IL 60643-8679

Survivors of Educator Sexual Abuse and Misconduct Emerge (SESAME)
Non-profit; confidential, supportive, information and referral network.
Contact: Mary Ann Werner
Mailing address:
681 Rt. 7A,
Copake NY 12516
Phone: (518) 329-1265
E-mail
Contact: Donna Covello
Mailing address:
77 Patterson Ave.,
Hempstead NY 11550
Phone: (516) 489-6406
Email

Survivors of Incest Anonymous (SIA)
Referrals and starter information for 12-step self-help groups; pen-pals; bulletins; speakers; literature
Mailing address:
World Service Office,
PO Box 190, Benson MD 21018-9988
Phone: (410) 893-3322
Website

Survivors of Spiritual Abuse (SOSA)
(CIA/Nazi mind control survivors may be triggered by the fluttering butterfly on this website's home page.)
Website

Survivorship
International non-profit, helps survivors and educates about ritual and mind control traumas and healing
Mailing address:
PMB 139, 3181 Mission St.,
San Francisco CA 94110-4515
Website 

Gordon Thomas's Website
Gordon Thomas has written on intelligence matters for a quarter of a century.  He has written many books, including several about CIA mind-control experiments.  His website includes information about the author, his books, and recent intelligence reports from around the world.  
Website

Torture Survivors Network
(Amigos de los Sobrevivientes)
Focuses specifically on Latin America and the Caribbean.
Support, information, referrals, support with starting programs.
Phone:  (541) 484-2450
Email
Website

University of Minnesota Human Rights Library:
Committee against Torture
Lots of documentation about torture.
Website

Understanding and Managing Triggers
by Survivorship
Website

Validity of "Battered Woman Syndrome":
in Criminal Cases
Involving Battered Women
by Mary Ann Dutton, Ph.D.
Website

VOICES in Action, Inc.
Help and support for victims of incest and child sexual abuse
Mailing address:
PO Box 148309,
Chicago IL 60614-8309
Phone: 1-800-786-4238
Website
E-mail

What is Battered Woman's Syndrome?
Family Law Advisor article
Website

HESHE Anonymous -- http://www.berks.com/12step/
   Recovery from all forms of addiction and addictive behaviors, dependency and co-dependency.

Fostered Abandoned Children Together -- http://www.factsupportgroup.com
   Information and materials for former foster children to form and conduct their own meetings.

All Things British -- http://www.thebritishclub.com
   Various services for British expatriates.

Self-Help Sourcebook -- http://mentalhelp.net/selfhelp/
   A searchable index of mental health and medical support groups.

Emotional Support on the Internet -- http://www.netservs.com/care/
   Listing of online support groups.

Transitions -- http://www.onestepatatime.com
   Support, discussion, resources and help groups for behavior disorders including self esteem, obsessive compulsive, and anxiety panic attacks.

Dual Diagnosis -- http://www.angelfire.com/journal/bipolaralcoholic
   Email support group for persons diagnosed with alcoholism / addictions and bipolar / deppression / anxiety.

Open Hearts Ministry -- http://www.openheartsministry.org/
   Support group for abused people which uses Christian approach to healing. Includes seminars, resources, local chapters and newsletter.

Ageless Love -- http://www.agelesslove.com
   Online community providing age-gap relationship support.

Officium -- http://www.officium.org.uk
   Support and advice for people affected by violent crime both on the site and in a handbook.

Forgiveness Web -- http://www.forgivenessweb.com
   Forgiveness in addiction and recovery; has message board, links to related articles and sites.

Recovery Web -- http://www.recovery-man.com/
   Recovery from addictions and alcoholism, sexual abuse, post traumatic stress disorder, codependency and abusive relationships.

Shattered Men -- http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shattterdmen/
   For physically and emotionally abused men; explore this together from a Biblical point of view.

Survivors of the System: Foster Children United -- http://www.sos-fosternet.org/
   Support for current and former foster children.

  

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